Random Thoughts and Links for the week, Posted 2012-02-05

  • RT @StevenErtelt: Girl Scouts in DC Respond to Planned Parenthood Link Charges http://t.co/0cuOIbSa pro-life #prolife #abortion #
  • They Have Islamist Fanatics, We Have Secularist Fanatics http://t.co/TCXXSQ8G #
  • RT @AmericanThinker: Our Elective Despotism http://t.co/AG94Cg2g #
  • Updated phone to a version of an accessible browser that was supposed to be better. It didn't work. Now neither version is in the market. #
  • RT @ChristianPost: Families Boycott Thin Mints Over Girl Scouts' Ties With Planned Parenthood http://t.co/Lw1JXJyK #
  • I think @TexasRickGreen is right – CAN ROMNEY BE STOPPED? HISTORY SAYS YES! http://t.co/Cqe0RUBH #
  • Komen drops Planned Parenthood, rakes in donations from people who objected to their support for PP, then goes back to business as usual. #
  • My ego isn't bound up in how many followers I have. Following me in a lame attempt to advertize your business is just spam. #

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Us Preachers’ Kids

Last week, a near tragedy in the family of a pastor friend of mine started me wondering if preachers’ kids really deserve their reputation. I first did a quick search to see if I could find any hard data on the behavioral and psychological health of the children of ministers versus other children. I hoped I might find some kind of clinical study, though I suspect that if I had found it the bias would have been extreme.

I found some blogs and forum posts by preachers’ kids. I wasn’t that impressed. I read their stories of how they felt pressure to be especially good and how it made life harder for them among their friends. Some of them used that as an excuse for their rebellious behavior. I don’t doubt that those pressures and feelings exist. I don’t remember feeling particularly put upon because I was a preachers’ kid, but my siblings may see things differently. My final impression was of a bunch of psychobabble that allowed them to justify in their own minds the way they felt or what they did.

I found a couple of ministries devoted to preachers’ kids. They didn’t move me either. They seemed designed to affirm the kids’ feelings, treating them as if they really had a hard life. We do face some atypical challenges. There is a higher expectation of us. So what! High expectations are good! Did we sometimes get neglected in favor of church or ministry activities? Maybe, but how is that different than children of working parents in any profession? Some are more demanding than others, but that aspect of the life of a preacher’s kid isn’t unique. I’ll grant that few if any other professions so involve the family in the work. This isn’t just any job though. It is work that all Christians are called to in one way or another.

I didn’t find what I was looking for, so I’ll offer my own opinion. Someone wrote that preachers’ kids have a reputation for being really bad or really good. I suppose I would concur, but I am not sure the reputation is deserved in either case. More often we hear about the really bad. I think that is because there is a higher expectation of a minister’s children. When they don’t meet that expectation, it sticks out. I remain unconvinced that in reality preachers’ kids are any worse than others. In fact, I suspect that in terms of behavior, morality, and responsibility, they beat the averages. I didn’t say they were better or even good. We may have had better training, but ultimately we all must confront the sinful nature that defines us until we are redeemed by His blood. “There is none righteous, not even one.” We like everyone else must make a choice whether we will serve Jesus or serve ourselves, thereby serving Satan and receiving Satan’s punishment. “As for me and my house, we will serve Yahweh.”

I am thankful that I was raised by a preacher. I thank God regularly for the strong foundation upon which I base my life today. My father taught me to love Jesus, love people, and live with integrity. He taught me to pray, to feed on God’s Word, and to do what God tells me. I’m proud to be a preacher’s kid, and I wish everyone else had the same blessing.

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Consequences of Declining Marriage

There are some interesting statistics here.  The part I’ve reprinted says it all.

Social Pressure to Marry Is Dead – Opinion – PatriotPost.US

The failure to marry on the part of the lower and lower-middle classes, not the tax code, Wall Street or competition from China, is what is aggravating inequality in America.

The toll is incalculable. In every way that social science can measure — school performance, drug abuse, unemployment, suicide, poverty, depression, dependence on government handouts, mental illness, violence, and far more — children raised by single parents (especially when their parents never married) are at a severe disadvantage. The failure to form families is devastating our schools, exacerbating inequality and diminishing happiness on a grand scale.

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Random Thoughts and Links for the week, Posted 2012-01-29

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The Media’s Double Standard

Here’s just one example among many, courtecy of Michael Reagan.

They Pick and Choose Which Ox to Gore – Opinion – PatriotPost.US

He had a mistress who was pregnant and his wife had terminal cancer; he was running for president and the press knew all about it.

But there was no firestorm in the media about this juicy scandal until after the election of 2008 because John Edwards is a Democrat!

Too bad Newt Gingrich is a Republican — otherwise the media would see to it that he’d be home free, warts and all, just like John Edwards.

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Random Thoughts and Links for the week, Posted 2012-01-22

  • Extremely frustrated with myself. Somehow failed to renew a domain and now a squatter has it. Worse because I already got it from one. #
  • Anywhere to get a replay of the Huckabee forum last night? Last one was great for exposing candidate philosopy. #
  • LOL RT @jonacuff: "4 signs that Solomon invented Twitter." New SCL. http://t.co/N7StH5o6 #
  • Oh no, delivery of something else I like but shouldn't eat RT @Drudge_Report: BURGER KING tests home delivery… http://t.co/n1it5jrD #
  • Sitting in DPS office. Going to be a long wait. This is govt efficiency. Want more? Vote for liberals. #
  • If you really want to stop SOPA and similar efforts, go after the source. Refuse to go to, purchase, or rent movies for the next month. #
  • Piracy is wrong, but giving the govt that kind of power is a cure far worse than the disease. Send a message. No movies for a month. #
  • I prefer eating my burger to reading it, but give them credit for trying. http://t.co/mm7pISiK #
  • Why is System eating 13% of my CPU for an extended period of time. #
  • The WHILL turns any wheelchair into an electric vehicle http://t.co/puwlUI8I #
  • Don't Fall for Jury Duty Scam http://t.co/tcL3UnM9 #

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Two Catholics, a Mormon, and a Loose Nut

I’m not really going to go into sects and cults today. That’s a topic for another post. I just like the title. I haven’t checked, but I suspect the conspiracy theorists are all abuzz with speculation about our ever narrowing field of choices for the Republican presidential nomination. We’ve run out of choices that might have brought some real reform to Washington.

I’m sure Ron Paul supporters would beg to differ. They may do so with good reason. Paul does say some things that need to be said. I believe he is dangerously wrong about the Middle East, but he’s right that we should not be going to war without a declaration of war as directed by our Constitution. His message of spending reform is desperately needed. He would champion limited government, and I would not be opposed to his having a roll in the new administration. However, when I think of Paul as president, I imagine living in Amsterdam. That’s not where I want to live. I suppose one could argue that if you’re high when you die by a terrorist bomb at least you’ll die happy. Some of his supporters aren’t doing him any favors either. They behave just like those on the radical left, the only difference perhaps being they’re not stupid enough to think socialist economic policies actually can work. That’s what corrupted moral standards lead to.

That leaves us with the other three, who all seem to have discrepancies between record and rhetoric. The same was true of Perry, but his professed loyalty to the Constitution with emphasis on states’ rights had my support. Now I’m not sure who to get behind. I’ve never seriously considered Romney. That hasn’t changed. If he wins, I’ll be voting against Obama rather than for him.

Santorum’s staunch support of life and family are very attractive, but I have seen nothing that convinces me that he will push for the radical changes we need to get government spending and overreach under control. However, character counts for a lot. He has no skeletons in his closet, despite the media’s despicable efforts to invent one. I think he would follow his conscience, and it seems to be in the right place. Could he hold his own against Obama? That question worries me.

Finally there’s Newt Gingrich. He’s Intelligent, knowledgeable, articulate and bold; and he’s mopping the floor with the other candidates in recent debates and buffing it with the media for good measure. The champion of the original Contract with America in 1994, he’s already proven he can get big things done. It’s too bad about the personal life. If the stories of his conversion are true maybe we can now believe that he will conduct himself with integrity, but his past is not going away. In our microwave culture, it’s easy to get caught up in the moment. Gingrich is riding high on his recent performance. I’ll admit to being swayed. He sounds like the man who can get the job done. Yet I also know that his solutions don’t reduce government enough. They just reorganize it in a more palatable mixture. Pragmatism suggests that his approach is the more reasonable, the better ideas from other candidates gone by being impossible to implement in our current environment. My questions are these. Are they truly Constitutional, and are they enough to keep us from collapsing? The latter answer may be that there is no longer anything to prevent that. It may be that we can only delay it.

I say again that our problems are not political but spiritual. I struggle to make the best choice among the available options, but I also realize that without change in our hearts, we will keep tilting toward evil. Driven by self-interest over all, we will make whatever choice seems to net us the best personal result. If we can overcome the deficiencies in our inadequate and liberalized educational system we may come to understand that we won’t ultimately get that by soaking the rich, but conservative economics wont’ save our souls. Far greater is the destruction wrought by declining morals than that by a declining economy, though the former will often lead to the latter. So do your civic duty and make the best and most informed choice you can, but above all preach Jesus. He is the only one who can save us.

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Random Thoughts and Links for the week, Posted 2012-01-15

  • Reading scriptures, teaching I've heard about them goes through my mind. Does it hide the real message? Sobering thought for a preacher. #
  • Experiencing the virtual part of VPN today..as in the network doesn't exist. #
  • RT @AmericanThinker: Hydraulic Fractured Fairy Tales http://t.co/IX3oq1eR #
  • Disappointed that the tracking issues haven't been fixed in ZoomText 10. #

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Birthday Reflections

I’ve never cared much for special days. I’m glad we celebrate some good things on those days, but I wish most of them would go away. If I’m to be consistent, I have to apply the same standard to my birthday. I want to be careful saying that. I’ve gotten quite a few birthday wishes today and I don’t want to sound unappreciative. In fact I’m pleased and humbled to have so many. It’s good to be thought of, even if it’s mostly because Facebook won’t let you forget. This is not a landmark birthday, but it is a day to stop and think for a moment about where I have been, where I am, and where I want to go.

Actually I think I’ve done quite enough reflection about where I’ve been. I can only say again that I marvel at God’s mercy. He led me in the right direction even though I kept going the wrong way. As for where I am, I am more certain than I have been in a very long time that it is where God wants me to be. He called me to be a preacher. He made it happen.

Can I say that about every area of my life? I wish I were as certain of that, but does that uncertainty indicate a lack of trust that He is truly in control? If He led me to Bartimaeus Baptist Temple, did He not also provide for me in the job that I have? It provides for our needs. It allows me to take care of my wife and give to God’s work.

I took joy in preparing tomorrow’s sermon. I thought, “Is there any better way to spend my birthday than doing what He called me to do?” I’ll confess that’s not the way I’m thinking when I sit in this same chair on Monday morning. It should be. That job gives me the freedom to do the things I want to do. Until or unless He provides another way, I need to be thankful for it and approach it with the same level of dedication that I give to the things that seem more in line with what I imagine my mission in life to be.

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What about the Constitution?

As I watched last night’s ABC debate among the Republican presidential candidates, it finally occurred to me what was missing. There could be numerous other complaints about the debate, but this one bothers me most. It is something that has been missing from just about all the political discourse we’ve seen, the notable exception being Ron Paul, who does get a few things right.

We seem to understand this when we talk about Judges. The biggest question we have for any judge concerns how he or she views the Constitution. Is it a “living document” malleable to whatever form the judge or even the people think it should have, or is it a definite set of laws by which we are constrained until or unless it is changed by the processes it provides? This is not a question applicable only to Judges. Every government official is sworn to uphold the Constitution. Therefore, how he or she views it is critical to know. President Obama, Nancy Pelosi, and others of like mind have clearly shown their contempt for the law of the land. Why then are we not asking questions of those who would replace them that reveal how faithful they will be to our Constitution?

Conservatives aren’t really doing that much better on this. A couple of months ago, Mike Huckabee ran an interview of each of the candidates in which state attorneys general asked them each a series of questions. Each was done individually and it was probably the best thing I’ve seen for exposing the governmental philosophy of each one. Rick Perry actually pulled out a copy of the Constitution at one point. Based on his performance that night and having read his book, I am favorably disposed toward him. His record in Texas is not unblemished, and I have real concerns about his ability to go up against Obama; but none of the others have shown me that they really mean to honor the Constitution. Bachman might have been a good choice, but she’s now out.

I still don’t know how I will vote when the time comes. I think my nose is sore from holding it every time I vote. It sure would be nice not to have to do that in November, but hope of that is ever diminishing. Every time I hear the current frontrunners talk, I hear variations on big government solutions that aren’t going to do anything to stop us from having an economic meltdown. They may delay the inevitable, but if anyone can stop it, it won’t be any of them.

I should add that no president can do that. He doesn’t have the power, despite the delusions of the current occupant of the Whitehouse. Our Constitution doesn’t give him that much power and that is a good thing. In order to turn this around, we need to be paying just as much attention to congress and we need to be asking them the same kinds of questions. Many who claim to be for limited government only wish to limit the parts they don’t like. That isn’t the standard. The Constitution is the standard.

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